What defines a marriage...............

I am so disgusted with the narrow mindedness about same sex marriage and what the perception of so many Americans.

I recently attended a regular event in the apartment complex where I live and where the subject of same sex marriage was discussed.  I try to keep on the quiet side at these gatherings as my politics and philosophies are much more liberal than most of the people that live here.  There was varying opinions as to why people are gay and some of the comments were surprising to say the least; clearly, these people are in a time warp.  I listened to all that I could take and had to speak up when it was stated that the Constitution sets out the law on the definition of marriage.  I stated that it does not, then it was stated that it must be an Amendement; again I stated that was not the case.  Then a woman, who had been the most outspoken, said "Well, it must be in the Declaration of Independence then!"  At first I was speechless, then annoyed, with anger rising.  I did not want to get into this one.  I politely stated that "I would check on that one if I were you."  The next step was to excuse myself for the evening and go back to my apartment.  I cannot believe that people are either so naive, stupid, or just ignorant!  How did they make it through school without learning the foundation of this country?  There is often reports that state that the education system has become so bad that they just pass students from one class to the next even though they do not meet the criteria.  These people that live here are all at least 55 and on that particular night I don't think that anyone was younger than 65!  What is the excuse for these people?  I often think that I should write a sit-com outline on the wild and crazy things that go on and the "interesting" comments and conversations that transpire.  It would certainly be entertaining.

Today I received an e-mail from Diane Feinstein stating that she is submitting repeal of the "Defense of Marriage Act".  We all need to support this effort that Ms. Feinstein is putting forth, along with the Courage Campaign.  Everyone in this country must stop being complacent about the actions that are happening in our National government, our states, counties, and cities.  We must voice our opinions by e-mail, Facebook, Twitter, phone calls and whatever method we can.  Be the first in your community to speak up, but make sure that you check out the facts about what you wish to convey before making statements, not everyone will let an embarrassing statement just pass, they may attack you with a very strong opinion.

It will be wonderful when we all learn to tolerate our differences and act in understanding and love!

Peace!